I have a birthday party coming up, and I want to offer yummy, guilt-free snacks, appetizers, and even cocktails. What are your favorites?
Dear B-Day Girl,
First of all, HAPPY BIRTHDAY (and where's the party?)! There are SOOOOO many fun and fantastic foods you can make and serve to your guests, but I'm going to stick with the ones that will absolutely fool ALL of your pals into thinking they are eating totally fattening stuff. Here are my picks for you:
5. Magical Low-Calorie Margaritas - These are incredible and have a fraction of the calories of regular margaritas. You'll never go back! I serve these at all of my parties, and everyone loves them.
6. Red Velvet Insanity Cupcakes - These are a great alternative to birthday cake. They're delicious, gorgeous, and portion-controlled. But if you wanna stick to a traditional cake on your b-day, go ahead and splurge.
Do you think someone should tell their friends if what they're about to order or eat is filled with fat and calories? Or should we just mind our own business when it comes to other people's food?
Friends with a Food Fiend
Dear Friends with,
That's an excellent question. In my opinion, you should ONLY tell your friends that what they're ordering is packed with calories and fat if they ask for your advice about food. A lot of people are VERY sensitive about this stuff, and if you start telling them what to eat or not eat, it could cause huge fights or just make your pals feel very uncomfortable. I know your intentions are good, but it can be very off-putting to people when a friend judges their meals and tells them they're making bad choices. There are, however, some exceptions to this rule. If a close family member (a parent, child, sibling, or spouse) has a specific medical condition and needs to avoid certain foods (like if your husband has extremely high cholesterol and is constantly ordering regular eggs and bacon), I think it can be okay to give them a gentle reminder about their choices every now and then. Telling someone you love them and want them to be around for a long time is often a good way to couch this. But unless the circumstances are extreme and involve people you are very close with, it's probably best not to comment. Telling your work friend that her happy hour cheesy potato skins and ginormous frozen margarita will total a full day's worth of calories and way too much fat = a bad idea. Trust me! If you want to share guilt-free food knowledge with friends without offending them, you can always forward some fun HG recipes and shocker emails to them. :)
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